Today isn't just Halloween, it's my 4th wedding anniversary My husband and I are separated right now, but that doesn't keep me from celebrating a day that I remember as one filled with love and happiness. We got married in DC, a little while before our home state of Virginia allowed same sex marriage. We didn't have a big ceremony, just us at the courthouse and a few of our friends as witnesses. Things might not be the way I want them to be right now, but I'm happy that I had a chance to share love in this world with someone, and I know that even though our circumstances aren't perfect, we still have love for one another and that will likely never change. I love you DeWitt, and I hope you have a wonderful anniversary.